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  • Off-Campus Studies for the Mature Student

    I have written
    this entry particularly for a fellow Xangan who is taking the positive,
    fulfilling step of becoming a mature undergraduate student.
    Huzzah!  I wrote some other mature-student advice recently, but
    this piece is mainly about the special pros and cons of distance
    learning. It may be useful for others who are considering the same
    plan, so I am posting it for general reference. Feel free to wander off
    if this is utterly irrelevant to your life!

    This morning, I thought about off-campus studying as compared to the
    on-campus experience. In some ways, mature student challenges are the
    same whether you attend physical classes or not. In other ways,
    distance learning can be trickier for an older person with an
    established lifestyle and family. And of course, some older students
    really need the flexibility that an online program can provide. Careful
    planning and preparation, as
    always, will make for the best chance of success.

    You will never forget your feelings of anticipation as you get ready to
    enroll in your first undergrad courses! Most people are near at least
    one post-secondary institution, and would have the fullest and richest experience if they could enroll
    at one of them and attend classes in person. You get face-to-face
    access to your prof and other students, to on-campus advisers and
    library resources. You also have a place to go, which would reinforce
    your inner sense of a temporary change of vocation. A sense of belonging can raise
    your spirits and help you to feel engaged and committed when the crunch
    hits. Many courses are offered in the evenings to accommodate schedule
    conflicts, too. And the 18-24-year-old-set aren't as scary as they look, either.

    I visited a distance-learning institution's website
    and took their online tour. They attest that it's great to be able to
    study "in your pyjamas" and to be at home to look after the kids, and
    so on. This is quite true, but can be a
    double-edged sword, depending on your circumstances.

    Yes, it is nice not to commute, not to have to lug books around, and
    not to absent yourself from familiar surroundings where you can be
    comfortable. But if you try to be a student and yet minimize changes
    to your established, everyday life, you could find it hard to make room
    for school, because all your old commitments, the ones which filled or
    even overfilled your life the day before you enrolled, will crowd in,
    and habit alone may distract you from the solid block of time that you
    will need to devote, each day, to successful studies.

    I heard the old story about working in peejays when I was a freelancer,
    and later when I owned and operated my own business. In fact,
    if I am too casual about the atmosphere in which I work or study,
    it can undermine my efficiency, my attention to detail, and the
    quality of my final work product as well. I find I perform at my best
    if I dress appropriately (I usually choose the infamous "business
    casual") and go to a special area of the house, or to a study area at
    school,
    which I especially associate with this activity.

    I am not saying distance studies can't be great, although possibly not as transformative or as deeply affecting to
    you on a personal level as on-campus enrollment. I am saying that it does call
    for some real effort on your part, and on the part of those around you,
    to allow you to really be a student and not the same mom, spouse,
    and/or coworker who, while taking a course here or there, is
    nonetheless expected to be available and to fulfill all the usual roles
    and functions.

    I would discuss the implications in some
    detail with everyone affected by my decision. Obviously, given the
    expense and time involved, they would realize the importance of
    success. I would formally re-allocate certain obligations and responsibilities
    (laundry? cooking? house-cleaning?). I would set up a special
    room with a door, or at least a particular area of the house, where I would engage in my studies. When there,
    I would not be available. Specific times for studying each day would
    help keep this predictable for others. If necessary, I would take advantage of
    local institutions, e.g., public libraries or university study rooms,
    as quiet refuges from distraction.

    A laptop will give you more flexibility to find an isolated place to
    concentrate on coursework. I mentioned laptops in my other
    mature-student advice, and cannot emphasize their value enough. Don't
    skimp on the tools you will need to make this experience rewarding.

    These suggestions cover challenges related to emotional commitment,
    time allocation, and sense of belonging. Then there is the inevitable
    isolation. You may feel at times as though no one around you really
    understands what you are going through. Certainly you will wish to take
    advantage of all possible "virtual" ways to connect with your professor
    and the other students in your classes. However, there may be
    additional local opportunities to interact with people in person.
    Certainly check whether some of your virtual classmates might happen to
    be within easy driving distance. Mature students sometimes feel alone
    even on campus, depending upon how easily they make friends. It's
    surprising how amicable and helpful younger classmates can be, but
    ultimately you may want to find other older students who will really
    share your concerns.

    Mature students, whether on or off campus, often need to hone rusty
    study skills and forgotten essay-writing techniques. I wrote a while
    back about the phenomenon of "over-conscientiousness" which I suffered
    from last year. This prevented me from putting pen to paper on time, as
    I never felt I had quite finished the preparatory work involved in
    researching a paper and organizing my thoughts. Any student might face
    this species of writer's block, but mature students are particularly
    prey to it. They often do not feel completely comfortable with the
    essay-writing process, and so they may not be able to relax and
    recognize that they are in fact quite ready to proceed. Ways to combat
    this and related problems include attending workshops and seminars on
    essay-writing, talking to profs and other mature students, and reading
    online resources. Also, read lots of relevant scholarly writing, even
    if you are not required to use it in your courses. Reading essays will
    help you to write them, and secondary sources will give you a deeper
    understanding of the material you are studying.


    If your planned degree is in English literature, then knowing a fair
    amount about Shakespeare and his works will serve you well. I do not
    mean to say that English studies are mostly about Shakespeare, but his
    plays and poems were extremely influential to later English language
    and literature, and so you
    will benefit from a solid understanding of them. Of course, invest in a
    complete scholarly edition of Shakespeare, such as the
    Riverside.
    Another book I recommend is the recently published
    Will in the World,
    by Stephen Greenblatt. This is a great read and will give you valuable
    insight into Shakespeare's life and times. We actually know an
    astounding amount about this author, and Greenblatt is a genius at
    pulling it all together into a crystal-clear picture. Howard Bloom’s
    engaging
    Shakespeare: The Invention of the Human contains an
    interesting essay on each play and is a good way to get into
    Shakespearian criticism. I also recommend planning to watch (not
    necessarily read, at first) each of Shakespeare's 37 plays. That's not
    so many when you think about it.
    This is a useful online resource for
    Shakespeare study,
    but there are many great movie versions of his
    plays, and so you can feel studious while munching popcorn in front of
    the TV.

    About employment during school. You may intend to work, at least
    part-time, while a student. This has certainly been done with success.
    However, full-time work will not mesh with full-time studies. As a
    mature student who'd been out of school for over 15 years, I was
    advised to take only four out of a possible five credits (admittedly,
    these were third-year English credits with heavy writing requirements), even
    though I had no job at all. It is reasonable to expect that you will be
    a bit slow to complete coursework such as essays, and you'll want to
    give yourself the extra time you may need. If you are starting in first
    year, you may have no trouble with five credits plus part-time work.
    But if you feel you need to continue a full-time job while taking more
    than one credit at a time, then this may be a sign that it is not yet
    feasible for you to go back to school. Again, my advice: don’t cheat
    yourself
    . Do this when you can utterly throw yourself into it, heart
    and soul.

    As this stage of your life opens up, you may feel self-indulgent, and
    consequently somewhat guilty, for focusing so much on yourself rather
    than giving the time to those around you, as you are probably
    accustomed to doing. Since you have time to re-organize, work to
    squelch this feeling. If it ever got away from you, it could
    undermine your entire academic career from the start. It is marvelous
    and lucky to have an opportunity to focus on your own development. You
    and everyone around you will benefit, in the long run, from this
    perfectly legitimate project. Keep your own and your family's eyes on
    the horizon from the start, and you will find the day-to-day challenges
    liberating, rather than burdensome.


    I haven't given many links to institutions or online resources in this
    piece. I do have an unfinished resource list for mature students, and
    I'll publish it one day. Until then, I'll happily accept suggestions for that list
    via comment or Xangamail.



    Later edit:
    Luv2teachpk's comment to this post is a great additonal perspective on
    distance learning. Personality is indeed involved, and especially for
    those who have strong support at home and a demanding schedule, as she
    does, an online program can be a stellar choice!

  • Curious Georgina Enjoys the Toronto Islands

    Hi Xangans! Wow, the weather's so nice. Let's go to the Toronto Islands! (Ooo, found a satellite image too.) C'mon, it'll be fun, we'll bring our bikes on the ferry!

     Click on any pictures to see bigger versions.

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    The Ward's Island Ferry
    is the one for bikes. I get a seat along the side so I can watch the
    other watercraft and see the shore approaching. We also exchange smiles
    and happy words with lots of other visitors (and their cute doggies)
    out to enjoy this great day, hot but with a cool breeze from Lake
    Ontario to make it all worthwhile. Okay, that didn't take long. Take a
    look back at Toronto before we enter another world:

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    Let’s go through the quiet green neighbourhoods first. Did you know
    that there are over 260 homes on Ward and Algonquin Islands?

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    Places to live here are reasonably priced, but the waiting list is
    very, very long, so you better sign up soon! And no wonder. It's like
    living the idyllic rural life with the big city a short ferry-ride
    away. Imagine it – no motor vehicles allowed. In fact, these 2.3 square kilometres (0.9 square miles) form the largest urban car-free area in North America.

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    Little lanes that are more like sidewalks. Sweet homes in a paradise of
    gardens. All along the north shore, an endless-seeming boardwalk makes
    a quiet rumble under our bike wheels.

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    Some old wharves slowly crumble away on the far east side. They are a
    great place to watch nature's constant beautification program in
    action.

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    Check out these cheerful masses of yellow flowers. I wish I knew what
    these little flowers are – they thrive in old concrete cracks by the
    water's edge.

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    Centre Island is where kids ride the ferris wheel or the
    merry-go-round, steer the bumper cars, or ride the miniature train. A
    little midway is open all summer, and some beautiful fountains and
    gardens too. The dragon boat races are here every June.

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    Over in the Hanlan's Point area, there's a nude beach! But hmm, we won't get any photos of that.  Baseball trivia: Babe Ruth hit his first professional home run in an old stadium here, now sadly gone. The ball went right into Lake Ontario!

    The Islands have their own fire station. Here it is, with its
    interesting clock tower and vehicles at the ready – some of the only
    motor vehicles allowed here. There's also a scenic little church and
    school, and various eateries.

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    Many graceful pedestrian bridges allow free passage over the inland
    waterways, providing photo opportunities galore. Three yacht clubs mean
    plenty of watercraft on view.

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    A little tired? Well, here, heaped on the early-evening ferry's warm
    wooden benches, us Island-goers are floated back to the mainland and
    our everyday lives. A peaceful end to a sunny holiday interlude.

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    I hope you enjoyed taking this trip with me. We didn't see everything -- we'll have to do this again one day, don't you think?

  • Curious Georgina makes a mean tuna melt!

    Yes, it's true - I have perfected the tuna melt. It's a great lunch or
    light supper on heat-wave days when you really would prefer to make
    light use of the oven. Follow these instructions and you will eat like
    a king. Which king? Neptune, obviously!

    CG's Tuna Melt Extraordinaire for Two

    2 cans white tuna in water, thoroughly drained and pressed
    1/4-cup mayonnaise (or a bit more if you like it creamy)
    1/4-cup finely chopped celery
    2 tbsp. minced onion
    2 tsp. dill pickle relish
    1 tsp. strong mustard
    1 tsp. balsamic or wine vinegar
    sprinkle of salt and pepper
    1/4-cup grated old cheddar

    1. Bake a loaf of white bread (I use my bread machine) or get some seriously amazing white bakery bread.
    2. Preheat the oven broiler.
    3. Mix the tuna ingredients listed above, except the cheese.
    4. Place two bread slices on a cookie sheet under the broiler until slightly golden.
    5. Remove toast from oven and heap tuna on them. Sprinkle with cheese.
    6. Broil loaded slices until cheese thoroughly melted.
    7. Serve instantly to fortunate recipients.

    While eating it, be sure to watch this little video if you haven't yet.
    It's small, yet as big as all outdoors. Silly, and yet a serious
    celebration. I rate it: very worthwhile!

  • Happy Canada Day!

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    Some people imagine that because Canadians are not major flag-wavers
    and anthem-singers, we don't have a deep love for our country. That is
    certainly not true of me and many Canadians that I know. My first
    thought upon rising this morning, as on every Canada Day in recent
    memory, was that if I could go back before my birth and direct where I
    would be born, I wouldn't change a thing. That's how lucky I feel to
    live in this great country, despite all the changes that have occurred
    in the last couple of decades.

    I like that Canada and the United States have their big days so close
    together that they are usually celebrated on the same weekend. I like
    to think it makes us citizens into better, more understanding
    neighbours for each other.

    Please enjoy this beautiful weekend, and if you are an American, I will
    just say that I know, today, how you will feel on the 4th. Cheers to
    all!

    P.S.
    Thank you so much for your words of encouragement while I was feeling
    bummed out yesterday. I read them with smiles and I do indeed feel
    better today.

    P.P.S. I saw Superman Returns
    last night. It may be my favourite superhero movie ever. Seriously, go
    see this one. Wow. Although I wonder how everyone will feel about the
    "truth, justice and ... all that other stuff" line. That was
    interesting.

    Afternoon:
    Our garden is yellow right now -- couldn't resist taking some pics and
    showing you all. (Click on them to enlarge.) if you can't view the cube
    below, check out the pictures here.

  • I'm so tired...


    I'm so tired, I haven't slept a wink



    I'm so tired, my mind is on the blink



    I wonder should I get up and fix myself a drink



    No, no, no





    I'm so tired I don't know what to do



    I'm so tired my mind is set on you



    I wonder should I call you but I know what you'd do


    famblyI
    just saw a couple of my oldest friends off -- they and their two sweet
    kids are moving over a thousand miles away and I probably won't see
    them for at least a year, if not two, if not more.

    Brave words about how we'll still be friends and that they are doing
    the right thing career-wise and so on just aren't working for me right
    now. I spent the day packing their kitchen in the midst of stressful
    chaos and I'm all used up.

    I promise to visit everybody tomorrow after I've had enough sleep. Nightnight!

    Morning edit: Well.
    I got enough sleep... it's sunny and flower-fragrant in my yard today.
    Roses are mostly finishing, but we have both single and double heliopsis opening up, which should be a source of joy, as well as day lilies.
    I
    can hear house finches, cardinals, grackles, blue jays, sparrows,
    chickadees, and goldfinches at my feeders. A holiday weekend is coming
    up, which promises us an opportunity to get out on our bicycles.

    You may sense I'm feeling a bit estranged from these delights, and it's
    true. Today seems to be the day to ponder the various depredations of
    age, the ones I usually laugh off or belittle. Everyone in their
    forties is occasionally overtaken by this mood, I think. Loss of glossy
    youth, loss of bounce, gain of pounds. The slow mortal drumbeat deaths
    of family and friends. The realization that it's probably the last time
    you will visit a favourite place. For me, no one has actually died, but
    I feel as though I have just come from a funeral, with all that
    ritual's opportunities for wistful introspection.

    I know I'll recover my usual appreciation for what's great in life... I
    seem to bounce back pretty well. For starters, I'll stroll 'round my
    Xanga neighbourhood and get a perspective by seeing what's going on in
    everyone else's life.

    I bet most of you are getting ready for July 1st or 4th. I love fireworks. Is anybody good at taking fireworks pictures? Oh yeah? Prove it!

  • Scrambled Brains

    Lazing and hazing about on summer vacation... blissed out on flowers... then suddenly – wham! I learn that I must register for fall courses on July 4. Way to wreck the mood, like, man!

    This week I spent a few hours wrestling with my degree requirements and
    the course schedule to come up with a list that will cause me to
    graduate next spring with an Honours BA. [That's a four-year degree, as opposed to the "Pass BA," which is three years long.]

    Subjects I will probably be investigating this fall and winter, under the guidance of some awesome professors:

    • Old Norse Language & Literature
    • Chaucer's Poetry
    • Romance and Visionary Literature of the Late Middle Ages
    • Jane Austen
    • Gothic Traditions Since 1900
    • Experimenting with America: Writing and Reformism, 1830-1930
    • Space and Place in Modern and Contemporary Canadian Poetry

    Riveting, right? Right!! Plus a full credit in Latin as a bonus extra next spring, and that will be that! Except…

    Because my marks since returning to school as a mature student are so
    promising, I have decided to apply for a master's degree at the
    University of Toronto. I am going to try for medieval studies, and I am interested in their book history and print culture program, too.

    We'll see if that goes anywhere... But it's exciting even to have the opportunity to try for it.

    I've missed you all, so expect to see my little snoopy footprints and silly comments today!


    Lunchtime edit: Been having some fun checking out my Xanga neighbourhood... haven't been 'round to everyone yet... but checked for today's Google search award
    and found that someone visited me based on "berserk Youtube removed"
    (?!) and also "career fatigue," which makes a bit more sense at least.

    People search for the darndest things on Google.

    Supper edit: Mmmm... Deluxe tuna-salad sandwiches.

  • Georgina's Needs

    Georgina needs to get a grip.
        Well, my grip has improved of late, but it could be better, no question about it.
    Georgina needs 48 hours’ notice!
        At the very least!
    Georgina needs her mummy’s company.
        I do have a great mum, so I’d have to agree here. 'Specially if there's gonna be Marmite.
    Georgina needs to improve.
        Er, that’s a no-brainer! But hey, I’m working on it!
    Georgina needs to find a champion.
        This one’s definitely out of date since I got married.

    Georgina’s friend needs more help packing boxes so that she can drive away serenely on Saturday morning.

        See y’all later!

    wpkr

  • Get that week off to a sunny start

    At the risk of boring non-gardeners out there, here is a sampling from
    my mother-in-law’s splendid garden, which got some attention on the
    weekend. Between veggie and rose gardens, pond for toads and fish, and bird boxes and feeders, I swear that Violet has the energy of a dozen of me, and I’m less than half her age. Long may she bloom!

    And I stole a pint of ripe mulberries from a century-old weeping mulberry tree next door too. It's a crime that the neighbours abandon those berries to the birds!



    There are nine photos in this mix, by the way. Eventually you'll see them all.
    And if the album above does not work for you, check it out here instead.

    And today's Google prize goes to: "french manicure danger" !?!

  • Have a lovely weekend!

    My husband and I are off to help his elderly mother take care of her extensive veggie garden. (If we don't do it -- she will!)

    So I thought I'd leave you with my best wishes for a great sunny relaxing weekend, and also with this ornament from my garden.

    A friend, knowing of my interest in all things Norse, made me this
    Norse weathervane. It stands in my garden, stylishly pointing out the
    direction of the prevailing wind. The runes on it also point out
    directions -- they explain the way from Greenland to Vinland according
    to the saga sources, if you know how to read them. Those are some of my
    lupins in the background -- they are just finishing up now.

    I'll get caught up with you on Sunday evening. Cheers!

    weathervane

  • A Marmite(tm) childhood

    LAST edit of the day:
    Some of you said you might actually try this salty, savoury snack for
    the first time! I wrote to one or two of you with instructions on how
    to make this experience positive, and then I thought, hey, I'll post it
    here. Follow these instructions if you ever get personal with a jar of
    Marmite!

    1. Make a lovely golden crunchy hot slice of toast from your favourite bread. Homemade white does it for me.
    2. Spread a medium amount of butter or margarine on it while it's still nice and steamy.
    3. Take a very small amount of
      Marmite on the end of a butter knife and streak the toast lightly with
      it. Definitely leave gaps between the streaks. Don't use more than
      about a pea-size amount of Marmite.
    4. Take a moment to smell the warm
      toast with its Marmite coating. Be sure to be thinking about how it's
      salty and savoury, and not sweet in any way.
    5. Take a great big flavourful bite! Woowoo!

    Night, all!

    Yesterday I found the cookbook referenced above, while downtown with a
    friend, browsing through the shops. It's the kind of thing you just buy
    instantly when you see it. Wait until my mom looks at this -- there
    will be some laughing then!

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    Marmite brings on delightful childhood nostalgia. Just a sniff of the
    open jar, and I am suddenly sitting at the sunny kitchen table with my
    born-in-England mom, feeling included in something special because we
    were indulging in our favourite snack, Marmite spread oh-so-thinly on
    crunchy hot buttered toast.

    It's a well-known fact that unless you were introduced to Marmite as a
    little kid, you probably loathe the whole concept of it, whereas if you
    were, you are a lifelong devotee. Today, I thought about how this
    curious phenomenon highlights the importance to a person's development
    of the experiences they have as a child. Marmite may be a trivial
    example, but I do think it's vital to give children as wide an
    experience of life as possible, so that they will become receptive and
    open-minded adults.

    All these serious thoughts because of Marmite! Gotta go -- gonna drool on my keyboard if I don't have some this instant!


    Post-toast edit:
    You know how you really love something and it's really
    part of your life, so you forget that there are people out there who
    are like, what the heck is that odd person talking about? Well, for those people, read up.

    Aha: Now that I'm out on the Internet looking at Marmite resources, I naturally have found the Missouri Marmite Museum. This proves that there are some Americans who have tasted this tasty taste!


    Recursive references award: I've just been Googled on "what's been googled"! *goggles* *giggles*